NATIONAL NEWS: The Princess of Wales has urged parents to put down their mobile phones during family mealtimes, warning that constant digital distractions are undermining family life and human connection.
In a personal essay published by the Royal Foundation on Thursday, the Princess said reliance on smartphones and other devices is fuelling “an epidemic of distraction” and risks creating “a generation that is more isolated, more lonely, and less equipped to form the warm, meaningful relationships that are the basis of a happy, healthy life.”
“Our smartphones, tablets, and computers have become sources of constant distraction, fragmenting our focus and preventing us from giving others the undivided attention that relationships require,” she wrote.
“We sit together in the same room while our minds are scattered across dozens of apps, notifications, and feeds. We’re physically present but mentally absent, unable to fully engage with the people right in front of us.”
The essay was written in collaboration with Professor Robert Waldinger from Harvard Medical School, known for his work on the science of human happiness and relationships.
The Princess said modern technology is eroding a basic human need for attention and connection. “Our undivided attention is the most precious gift we can give another person,” she said. “Yet, increasingly, it’s the most difficult gift to offer. When we check our phones during conversations, scroll through social media during family dinners, or respond to emails while playing with our children, we’re not just being distracted, we are withdrawing the basic form of love that human connection requires.”
She called for a “conscious effort” to be fully present with family and friends, adding: “The answer begins with recognising that attention is something we can choose to give each other in every moment – at home, at work, in our communities. It means protecting sacred spaces for genuine connection: family dinners, conversations, moments of genuine eye contact and engaged listening.”
The message comes shortly after the Prince of Wales revealed in a recent television interview that none of the couple’s three children have mobile phones.
The Princess acknowledged that growing up in a “world immersed in digital technology” poses particular challenges for today’s children and said they must be supported to develop strong social and emotional skills.
“Ultimately, by nurturing the development of social and emotional skills in early life, we will be equipping children with the capacity to love and be loved,” she wrote.
“These skills will influence their success far more than academic achievements alone, and will touch every part of their lives, from how they form friendships, to how they raise their own children, to their values and the decisions they make.”
This afternoon, the Princess is expected to visit an early years centre in Oxford, continuing her long-term focus on early childhood development. The early years, from pregnancy to age five, have become a cornerstone of her public work, inspired by her belief that many adult challenges, including mental health issues and social exclusion, have their roots in early life.
Her comments also echo wider concerns raised by other members of the Royal Family. The Duke and Duchess of Sussex have previously spoken about the risks of excessive screen time and earlier this year unveiled a memorial in New York dedicated to children who lost their lives due to harm linked to social media.
Prince Harry has also said that life is “better” when spent off social media and called for stronger action to address online harms.
Do you agree with the Princess? Have you set phone-free zones or screen-time rules in your household — or do you find it an impossible task in today’s digital world? We’d love to hear your views.
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